The Mental
Load Agency
Official Relationship Risk Assessment.
Millions of people are silently carrying the invisible workload of modern relationships. The planning. The remembering. The anticipating. The organizing. We identify it, document it, and deliver the verdict — on official letterhead.
Director General
The Problem
Millions of women are silently carrying the invisible workload of modern relationships.
Not because their partners are bad people.
But because many partners only see the visible tasks.
The shopping. The dishes. The laundry.
- The planning.
- The remembering.
- The anticipating.
- The organizing.
- The emotional management.
How It Works
Complete the Assessment
18 carefully worded questions covering anticipation, planning, household, social and emotional logistics. Takes 4 minutes.
We Calculate Your Index™
Mental Load Score. Relationship Risk. Burnout Probability. Responsibility Distribution. Invisible Work Ratio.
Receive Official Notice
A personalized warning notice from The Mental Load Agency, addressed to the responsible party. Stamped. Signed. Undeniable.
A Sample Notice
What a typical recipient — let's call him "The Boyfriend" — receives in the mail.
Following a comprehensive review of household operations, relationship management systems and emotional logistics, we regret to inform you that your partner is currently operating at 94% cognitive capacity.
Current symptoms include:
- ✓ Remembering birthdays
- ✓ Managing appointments
- ✓ Monitoring household supplies
- ✓ Tracking social obligations
- ✓ Planning meals
- ✓ Organizing holidays
- ✓ Anticipating problems
- ✓ Asking for help & explaining how
Recent evidence indicates the use of the phrase: "Can I help with something?"
This is not help. This is management.